Monday, May 15, 2006

What's a Player?

"What's a Player?" by kwell

You may as well ask for the definitions of "Pimp" & "Mack" while your at it...IME- A "player" seduces women with charm, ladies invariably feel good/happy in his presence. He diciplines women with his absence(s) and withdrawal of attention. He checks their tests and outbursts of drama before they gain strength with the (non-verbal)threat of moving on. If the woman is "good" to Daddy, then she is rewarded with his presence and affections.ONCE A PLAYER ALWAYS A PLAYER...If a player has one lady in his rotation or twenty, it doesn't affect his status. Even if for some reason he settles down with 1 or 2 women to live as man and wife(s) he will remain a player.A player doesn't approach women with a finacial goal in mind. A player fills his life with women because he loves women, and never tires of them physically or socially.Macks are players with financial needs of the women they invite into their circles. Biggest difference: a true mack will drop a very (physically & personally) attractive female if she is unable to do anything for his pockets, and keep a less attractive woman in rotation if her pockets are right.Pimps are all about the $$$. They seduce with dreams and insecurity.Where a player communicates the main theme: I like who/what you ARE, I think you ARE very attractive & interesting! Lets enjoy ourselves.A pimp communicates the theme: You've got great potential.I like what you CAN be with my help.If I show you the way, you WILL be very interesting, and together we WILL be successful -providing you are willing to work, sacrifice and do the hard things success demands...Pimps dicipline with emotional\ mental manipulation to keep a hoe's self esteem low. With the goal of becoming like air or water to the hoe, where the hoe is unable to contemplate the possibility of survival without him.


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Ok, this is one of those things that you read and can’t decide if it’s entertaining or idiotic. On the one hand it’s entertaining because as the writer describes a player, I have a very vivid image of someone I know in my head. Idiotic because I can’t believe that someone actually took the time to break this down so meticulously. For me what this all boils down to is self-respect. If people had more respect for themselves they would never try to run these types of mind games on people, nor would they allow themselves to be played in such a way.


Not respecting yourself, is the same as committing suicide at a slow rate.


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